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		<title>Say Something Sweet Through Left Ear!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 12:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you want to reveal that you love someone, you should say it to them through their left ear, says a new research. Someone will be more visible because of emotional words such as &#8220;love&#8221;, if they heard it through their left ear. It is revealed in a study conducted by psychologists at Sam Houston [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">If you want to reveal that you love someone, you should say it to them through their left ear, says a new research. Someone will be more visible because of emotional words such as &#8220;love&#8221;, if they heard it through their left ear. It is revealed in a study conducted by psychologists at Sam Houston State University, Texas.</span><span id="more-633"></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">This means that if something is better heard through the right ear, they tend to be easier to forget. The researchers say that this study result can be explained by the fact that the left ear is controlled by the right brain, which is responsible for emotional things.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">&#8220;The role is consistent with the right brain in processing emotional stimulus,&#8221; said Dr. Teow-Chong in a statement at the European Psychology Congress.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">This research was involving 26 people who hear the words through their different ears at a same time. Words are developed from emotional words such as &#8220;depression&#8221; to the non-emotional words such as &#8220;merge&#8221;.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">After training, participants were asked a number of words that they have heard. The researchers found that participants have a strong memory for emotional words that they have heard through their left ear. Repetition of the same through the right ear is not as strong as that delivered through the right ear.</span></p>
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		<title>Tips: 5 Ways to Avoid Boring Romanticism</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 12:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you ever notice how many people leave their relationship becomes stale and fall into a boredom? Perhaps, you are in a situation like this. Such situation will be very difficult to be solved. But you can do the following five things to avoid boredom and keep romanticism live in your relationship. 1. Revealing love [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;">Did you ever notice how many people leave their relationship becomes stale and fall into a boredom? Perhaps, you are in a situation like this. Such situation will be very difficult to be solved. But you can do the following five things to avoid boredom and keep romanticism live in your relationship.<span id="more-630"></span></p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 6pt 0cm 6pt 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; line-height: 150%;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><em><span>1.<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></em><!--[endif]--><em>Revealing love</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 150%;">Always tell your partner that you love him/her. The phrase &#8220;I love you&#8221; is not only words of course, but also about how you feel something. Be creative and remember that actions will speak more than hard words.</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 6pt 0cm 6pt 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; line-height: 150%;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><em><span>2.<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></em><!--[endif]--><em>Communication</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 150%;">One of the scopes that are the most talked-about in a relationship is communication. Poor communication will kill the relationship, so it is very important to at least set aside a time each day to talk to your partner. Communication does not even matter if you&#8217;re talking, as long as you discuss things. You will soon discover that you have a lot to say.</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 6pt 0cm 6pt 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; line-height: 150%;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><em><span>3.<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></em><!--[endif]--><em>Honest in the relationship</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 150%;">This may seem a little strange, because the benefits are not clear. When you do something wrong on your partner, it is no matter whether they ever knew. In fact, you have made changes and create distance between you both. But do something to your pair, and you will immediately find yourself in a decline spiral.</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 6pt 0cm 6pt 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; line-height: 150%;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><em><span>4.<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></em><!--[endif]--><em>Do not judge your partner too</em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 150%;">Instead of the above is to realize that each person can fault. If your couple has made a mistake, sit quietly and see if it is something you can do. Too fast and too often you blame will cause depth reactions. Depth reactions can trigger profound regret in the incoming days.</p>
<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="margin: 6pt 0cm 6pt 18pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18pt; line-height: 150%;"><!--[if !supportLists]--><em><span>5.<span style="font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; font-size: 7pt; line-height: normal; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal;"> </span></span></em><!--[endif]--><em>Add a little romanticism each day </em></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; line-height: 150%;">Being a romantic is not difficult and can be done in many ways. It is very important; at least you make a romantic action every day spontaneously or become creative in accordance to your feeling.</p>
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		<title>Intimacy Is More than Only Sexual Intercourse</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 13:53:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Intimacy is widely used as an expression of sexual intercourse. Psychologists know that an intimacy is a crucial part among all of our important relationships. This is the factor that makes a relationship to be more in, meaningful and full of personal values. If we really need an intimacy, then why is the intimacy so [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Intimacy is widely used as an expression of sexual intercourse. Psychologists know that an intimacy is a crucial part among all of our important relationships. This is the factor that makes a relationship to be more in, meaningful and full of personal values.</span><span id="more-628"></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">If we really need an intimacy, then why is the intimacy so difficult to achieve? The biggest hindrance at this time is time, and the lack of device, said Susan Prosser, a psychologist and counselor for Counseling and Education in Ottawa. Intimacy requires a lot of time commitment; most of us have one of more than two or three intimate relationships.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Other things can be in the form of worries. Letting people know what&#8217;s going on ourselves providing risk of derision and rejection. Therefore, we sometimes find a situation that appears to intimate, but it is usually not.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Error on main concept of intimacy is only needed in your relationship with your partner. But the view of men and women are often different, said Jayne Weatherbe, a therapy expert of the Family Therapy Institute of Vancouver Island. If the idea of male intimacy is watching TV with his wife, when the wife’s is shopping, both of them may be disappointed if they do not have other people to fulfill their desire.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">To get all that needs to be intimate with a pair usually are a burden on the marriage. It is very dangerous for someone who has a full of relationship meaning. Someone who is not in a serious relationship can still be very intimate experience in their lives.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Another mistaken belief is when intimacy is not achieved easily –we have relationships in the wrong way. But achieving and maintaining intimacy requires work and this is a process. Usually, if we are closer to other people, we will feel bashful, and suddenly stay away.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 6pt 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt; line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;">Third error in this concept is that intimacy is a women&#8217;s, not men&#8217;s. Indeed, intimacy is a fundamental human terms, but people have not given the opportunity to men to show.</span></p>
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