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Intimacy Is More than Only Sexual Intercourse
By admin | February 1, 2009
Intimacy is widely used as an expression of sexual intercourse. Psychologists know that an intimacy is a crucial part among all of our important relationships. This is the factor that makes a relationship to be more in, meaningful and full of personal values.
If we really need an intimacy, then why is the intimacy so difficult to achieve? The biggest hindrance at this time is time, and the lack of device, said Susan Prosser, a psychologist and counselor for Counseling and Education in Ottawa. Intimacy requires a lot of time commitment; most of us have one of more than two or three intimate relationships.
Other things can be in the form of worries. Letting people know what’s going on ourselves providing risk of derision and rejection. Therefore, we sometimes find a situation that appears to intimate, but it is usually not.
Error on main concept of intimacy is only needed in your relationship with your partner. But the view of men and women are often different, said Jayne Weatherbe, a therapy expert of the Family Therapy Institute of Vancouver Island. If the idea of male intimacy is watching TV with his wife, when the wife’s is shopping, both of them may be disappointed if they do not have other people to fulfill their desire.
To get all that needs to be intimate with a pair usually are a burden on the marriage. It is very dangerous for someone who has a full of relationship meaning. Someone who is not in a serious relationship can still be very intimate experience in their lives.
Another mistaken belief is when intimacy is not achieved easily –we have relationships in the wrong way. But achieving and maintaining intimacy requires work and this is a process. Usually, if we are closer to other people, we will feel bashful, and suddenly stay away.
Third error in this concept is that intimacy is a women’s, not men’s. Indeed, intimacy is a fundamental human terms, but people have not given the opportunity to men to show.
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